04.30.08@心理測驗

今日玩左一個"聽聞"喺美國非常有名氣嘅心理測驗 !
如果有時間都可以首先Silent左我個blog嘅音樂先
好啦依家靜D啦...可以一齊玩玩... 開始啦... *o*

L小姐和M先生是一對戀人, 兩人隔河而居,其實那條河不寬,也不闊。

有一天,M先生得了急病,L小姐知道了心急如焚,
但是那一天出現了暴風雨, 河水暴漲,風急雨勁,
M先生叫她不要去探望他, 可L小姐還是要不顧一切去看看他。

於是她去找B先生,因為B先生有一條船,有能力送她過河。
可是,B先生卻要收過河費一百萬,即使她向他解釋M先生的情況,他也一樣不為所動。
L小姐當然沒有那麼多錢,於是她去找S先生,因S先生也有一條船。

豈料,S先生竟是無恥之徒他要求L小姐獻上她的肉體,方才載她渡河。
L小姐為了愛情,最後犧牲了自己…… 最後,S先生也載了她過河。

M 先生的急病,最後也沒有惡化,是化險為夷了。
但當他知道L小姐居然 犧牲了自己的貞節,
他很生氣,因為他早已吩咐她不要來,何況還因此犧牲了肉體!

最後,M先生和L小姐就這樣分手了。
L小姐很傷心,不久之後,他認識了年紀較大的F先生。
當他知悉了她的過 去後,不但不介意,還向她示愛。
雖然L小姐並不太愛F先生,也不太勉強 … …

好了,問題來了:
參考故事內容,然後從故事的五位人物 ,
L小姐,M先生,B先生,S先生,F先生
按照你喜歡他們的程度,由好至壞排上一個等次


"P.S. 答案喺下面... 如果偷睇左就唔準架 !"




























'聽聞"lee個係美國心理學家研究出黎嘅一個略有名氣的心裡測驗,
其實每一個故事人物都代表一個意義 :


L小姐 - Love (愛情)
M先生 - Morality (道德)
B先生 - Business (事業/金錢)
S先生 - Sex (性)
F先生 - Family ( 家庭 )



04.30.08@Olympic Torch is now here in HK

As reported in the media
the Olympic Torch is finally arrived in HK at 14:00 today
for the Friday 2nd May 120-member relay!!
Feel very excited & very proud of myself can be apart of HK
as i know the last time when Olympic Torch has arrived in HK
that was in 1964. That was very long time ago!

"i believe everybody who support Hong Kong"
"also China as well and of course... ..."
"give 100% support to our 2008 Olympic in Beijing!!"

04.26.08@Happy B-Day to "Lo Mic"


"HAPPY BIRTHDAY..."

to lovely, wonderful "LO MIC"

"Hope your B-Day brings u everything u like

& get everything u like"

"Have a fun & fantastic day!!"

04.20.08@爹爹生日快樂 \(*o*)/

"Tomorrow is my Dad's the 60th Birthday!"
but we celebrated his b-day tonight at the restaurant called "陶源"
it was lots fun & we all had such a great time together
that we played MJ & had karoke before dinner
it's really good to see that my dad was really happy
i'd love to send my best wishes to him
good in health, happiness & well-being *o*
i love u xoxo.. hehe.. love u kisskiss..

"here is the clip i wanna show u...

" Happy Birthday song \(*o*)/ "




*To view more photos plz click :

04.19.08@"與狗共餐"

i had dinner at Helen's home tonight
to celebrate their 11st anniversary
again.. "Lai was the chief" who made us a great seafood dinner
one thing he forgot to bring that was vegetables
supposed to have green salad with squid
then the squid has became one of our appetitizer
haha... *o*




main course : fish with spinach & tomato


"The hungry dogs asked for a piece of bread in my hand!!
what are poor dogs !! haha.."


佢叫"花花"



佢叫"Mike Mike"





*To view more photos plz click here :

04.15.08@My First Edit for "Winnie"

Today it's my sis birthday
"Happy Birthday" \(*o*)/
I wish ur' wishes will come true
& have a memorable "X0th" B-Day...BIG GIRL
don't wanna talk too much...
let's see the clip that i made...
it's my first time to make short film hehe...

"i hope this moment while u watching this video...
.. will be indeed the most memorable moment of your life"
once again ..... HAPPY "X0th"

^ ^ Enjoy the video... !! ^ ^

*or u may watch the clip on this link :

04.12.08@Joey's Star Light concert - Part II

Nice voice singing by Joey..

recently i really like this song "螢"

also had other song been recorded "與貓共舞"

03.30.08@Susan & Sammy's Wedding



For Susan & Sammy :
"Congradulation! U guys really are great couple!
Susan, u're the MOST prettiest bride in the world

I wish u'll have the BEST BEST in Love & good in future!"




We are the most naughtiest group in CX "IND25"
haha... very noisy & always joke around
from left : Ahke . Alfa . Mama ."Meigi". Yetta . Celia . Kit . Maggie . June . Akii
( ^ ^ We are the best of the BEST ^ ^)

03.30.08@Happy Birthday!!

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME ... ^ ^"
I Love CHEESECAKE "vV" yeah "Vv"


* thx 4 ur' lovely PC & red wine ^ ^ Mr. Ho *
* thx Carina for water bottle *
* thx Babe for your lovely bag *

03.25.08@Front Cover Photo of Jetset Magazine Competition


Photo was taken at FUK Airport
Standing near by one engine of A330 aircraft
that has given me a very strong feeling of excitement & impression
so I asked myself why would this thing impress me a lot..
I say "engine is the main part of aircraft,
without it, people can't fly,
can't know people from other countries,
can't learn their cultures, etc..."
Here I am wearing in CX uniform with my big smile & knowledge
that represents the spirit of CX Cabin crew is here for safety
& also provides our best service to our passenger.
Our goal is alwaysto hear passenger saying "Thank You" to all of us at the end of the flight.

02.03.08@好多地道食店介紹

my friend Marleana who sent me this link
i think it's very useful & nice to know
that u could find there are many nice food at this site
i haven't tried any of them
but i just think that u guys should got to know this
hope u'll like it &
tell me if u've tried any of these foods ^ ^ haha...

*** 好多地道食店介紹 ***
(有好野食... "click"我啦 !!)

02.01.08@Big Apple JFK

flying to NY from Vancouver this evening
the flight was very quiet that only had 67 pax in Y class
our ism assigned crew rest period for us that we had chance to take our rests sitting at First class
first time for me to sit in F .. that's very interesting to me...

^ ^ but the flight was little delayed upon arrival
the weather was so bad on the way to JFK
the wind was so strong with heavy rainning
i can even heard the noisy rainning sound inside the aircraft from the outside bad & scary... :'(

02.01.08@Exclusive : First Class Seat

See how nice the washroom of First Class is !!
There are only 2 for F. class
It has window that u can see the outside view when u go pee pee hehe...
when u see through the window, u will see this amazing landscape view as below picture ^ ^

Inside the cabin in First Class :

180' degree flat bed wow !!


Goodnight i'm ready to take my rest ^ ^
see ya in 2 hours later... xoxo

02.01.08@電台訪問 - 無知少女

received a radio clip from my girl friend recently
i was surprised after heard about her story
that she paid $10,000 for her mob. bill
very rediculous?!!

here i am sharing this wid u
check this out ~
http://www.esnips.com/doc/f7fdf364-aa7b-43eb-85c8-171b90b9c2a1/hkphonegirl

01.29.08@go-go..JOEY!!

went out to see "Starlight Joey concert" tonight
i think she did a really good job
her show was excellent
her voice is very nice.. she sings beautiful
her dancing is good too.. very impressive

Good Job!!

*PS. Thx lai lai for your lovely ticket xoxo..

01.25.08@Bye-Bye... Rachel!!

It's sad for us to hear the leaving news from one of my colleague Rachel,
but i'm sure she had made a very good decision
that not to be a flight attentant as her future career
she's still young.. i think that it's good to make a "move on"

to see other things by working in other industry
i'm getting tired flying too... hopefully in some day..,,
something can bring me courage that make myself to move on as her too
but i knew i'd gonna miss to travel places...

anyway.. i do really happy for her & good luck to her in future
"Wish ALL the best in her new job & happy working together with her new colleagues"


We all "Naugty IND25" miss u ^ ^

01.13.08@9Gs Connecting till 26th



Wow... Look at this haha ^ ^
i've been busy flying since Dec 27th till this month 18th
only 3 days off recently but it's ok
coz' i got 9G straightly
until 26th end of Jan after done my LAX flt
so i'll be spending my holiday in London
& everyone plz... DoOoO Pray for me
hopefuly could get onboard on that day.

01.13.08@同場加映《職場溝通法》

可曾覺得電影中的挑剔上司和卸責同事似曾相識?戲如人生,今期從電影分析職場中人必學的溝通秘笈,並頒發「最佳上司」、「最佳下屬」、「最佳客戶代表」和「最佳同事」4 項大獎,更訪問了 4 位職場「最佳女主角」分享溝通心得。

最佳上司
能成為下屬、同事眼中的好上司,需要真材實料不在話下,要讓人心悅誠服更需要真心關懷下屬及同事的利益。


開門見山
新官上任,應如何紓緩繃緊的氣氛,同時表現自己的處事作風?Helen Hunt 在《偷聽女人心》中飾演新入職的創作總監,在首次簡介會中,她就以幽默的方式做開場白,她說︰「我初入行時曾兩次申請入職這間公司,卻不被人事部接見。」然後她再扼要地說明公司正面對的危機,自己願意和同事共同進退,著重團隊精神等,這種說法很親民,也明確指出公司的發展方向,令同事受落。

知人善用,關懷下屬
上司不知人善用,令公司損失良才,下屬亦易生離心。Mel Gibson 在《偷聽女人心》中飾演高級創作經理,一直忽視助手的資歷及訴求,只給她雞毛蒜皮的任務,令她心裡非常不滿;對於任職了兩年總務文員的轉職要求,他一直不聞不問或借故推辭,令她覺得自己不受重視,萌生輕生念頭。人是感情動物,職場上除了理性外,上司亦應顧及下屬的需求及感受,彼此的合作才愉快。在《貼身情人》裡,哈佛法律系高材生 Sandra Bullock 被上司 Hugh Grant 當「阿四」,下班後經常收到追魂 call,令她忍無可忍要辭職。這是「惡魔」上司的典範,各位請緊記!

為下屬爭取權益
下屬和公司的利益有衝突時,如何處理?梁詠琪在《女人本色》中飾演財務總監兼管人事部,雖然公司財政緊絀,她卻為茶水部員工被推翻房屋貸款一事與上司極力爭取,其後她為了平息罷工潮,承諾所有員工一起減薪。不同職級的員工也是公司的資源,作為管理層,如果連基層員工的福利也不能捍衛,其他員工及外界更加對公司失去信心。

最佳上司 Dos and Donts
*Open minded 的上司能增加員工創作力及對公司的歸屬感。
*選擇輕鬆的環境,定期和下屬傾談,彼此了解工作情況和留意員工的情緒。
*只懂擺官腔,缺乏明確的方向及要求;講一套,做一套,向員工許不能兌現的承諾。

不擺老闆架子
從事服務行業事事以客為先,擁有多年代理著名品牌經驗的 Carsac 創辦人康虞茱迪分享她的職場相處之道。

根據過往的經驗,你如何應付挑剔的客人?
我覺得挑剔的客人分兩類。第一類屬於追求完美,見識廣博,面對這些客人,自己更要做足準備工夫,表現出專業、有果斷的分析及決策力,叫他們信服。第二類是無理取鬧型,唯有以真誠及禮貌的態度去應付。保持笑容及細心了解客人的需要後,才提出適合的建議,可減低碰釘機會。有耐性及真誠的態度能令挑剔的客人成為你的熟客。

你如何與下屬相處?
認真的放鬆是我一直抱著的工作宗旨。我不喜歡在下屬面前擺出老闆模樣,希望大家工作認真之餘,氣氛都是輕鬆的,當然基本的尊重不可沒有。面對一些不太自律的員工,我對他們會較嚴厲,像教學一樣,對下屬也要因材施教。下屬表現未如理想,我會給他們機會去改善,但時限也很重要。

Avoid negative thinking
「我辦妥很多事情,她不讚賞一句,偶然辦不到一件事情,就被罵得狗血淋頭,我已經盡了力,她根本針對我。」Anne 向同事訴苦。
節錄於《穿 Prada 的惡魔》


最佳下屬
忍氣吞聲並不代表你是一位好下屬,最重要是在適當場合展現自己的長處及自我反省。

忍氣有價
下屬在甚麼情況下才有必要忍受挑剔、說話刻薄的上司?《穿 Prada 的惡魔》的女主角 Anne Hathaway 的理想是當記者,但因為缺乏經驗而碰壁,胡裡胡塗地進入了一間國際著名的時裝雜誌社當總編輯的助手。縱使 Meryl Streep 飾演的上司說話刻薄、對她的要求極之苛刻,但為著前途,Anne 依然容忍,久而久之她亦開始由埋怨、不屑時裝潮流玩意到嘗試了解自身工作背後的理念及意義,最後憑著出色的表現,獲得上司的嘉許,成功「上位」。「惡魔」上司雖難應付,但只要你投入工作,努力嘗試及多與上司溝通,你的表現是會被賞識的,最強橫的上司也會軟化。待若干時候,你得到的好處可能是千金難求,像 Anne 最後憑著前公司的名氣及上司推薦,成功進入理想的公司工作,可說是先苦後甜。

爭取機會
職場上,有很多人可能害怕被其他人覺得自己 aggressive,而沒有盡力向上司爭取表現的機會。Michelle Pfeiffer在《捨不得你》中,最初只是編導 Robert Redford 的助手。她向 Redford 積極爭取成為天氣報道員,卻只被叫去買咖啡。有一次,天氣報道員拒絕穿上尷尬的雨衣,Michelle 立刻推薦自己,最終獲得機會,後來更被晉升為記者。職場如戰場,選擇適合的時機,主動跟上司溝通、爭取機會並不是甚麼可恥事,相反,這是積極自信的表現。另一個反面教材則是
《打工女郎》中的女主角 Mary,她積極地向上司 Sigourney Weaver 提議計劃,但當她發現自己的建議被上司盜用後,就和上司鬧翻。劇情有點誇張,但意念被偷這等事情每天也在職場裡發生,如果還想繼續留在公司,應沉著應戰或待時機成熟時調職,否則一拍兩散不成,最終只有自己壯烈犧牲。

最差 candidate
能掌握求職、轉工時面試的溝通技巧,面試自然節節勝利。
面試前,首要是了解有關公司的市場地位及老闆的背景,Anne 在《穿 Prada 的惡魔》裡在完全沒準備下去見工,她的學歷、信心及誠意十足,但在現實世界,她是好大機會被淘汰的,因為單是沒準備地去面試已代表你對這份工作的誠意有限,成功機會亦渺茫。在《BJ 單身日記》中,Renee Zellweger 到多間電視台面試記者職位,她想表現自己知識廣博,卻在沒準備下出洋相,加上前言不對後語,失敗而歸。最後她告訴一位總編輯其轉工原因是因為與前老闆發生了性關係,卻被即時錄用。切記這只是電影的 gimmick,千萬別模仿,天真地以為告訴面試公司一些「震撼性」的故事,對方就會「另眼相看」,別發夢!即使真的成功,都不是在香港。

最佳下屬 Dos and Donts
*環境不會因你而改變,想達至成功,你得適應環境。忍氣可視作磨練,將 impossible task 視為挑戰。就算最初爭取不成功,過程中最重要保持自信與微笑,學習察言觀色。
*和上司遇到紛爭或涉及利益衝突,切忌衝動行事,魯莽地與上司鬧翻,對自己百害而無一利。


Best candidate
Monster 求職網站的銷售總監 Denise Chu 跟我們分享轉工面試及見客的溝通技巧。

轉工面試時,有甚麼要注意及避免談及?
千萬別說舊公司或老闆的壞話,這讓對方覺得你沒有口德,恐防日後自己公司也有「被唱」的危機。換個角度,應該說一些正面的原因,例如舊公司的發展空間有限,沒機會轉崗位等,人望高處是正常的。也要讓對方知道你轉行所冒的風險不比他聘請你為小,對方才能感受你的決心及誠意。

見客時,要注意甚麼?
一個愉快的溝通經驗是能否取得客戶信任的關鍵。見客時,打扮要得體,尊重對方。開場白可以輕鬆的生活逸事帶過,打破嚴肅氣氛。過程中保持微笑及禮貌、挻直腰背,保持眼神接觸及表現自信,說話聲線要適中、柔和中帶衝勁,語調要果斷,內容當然要有組織及邏輯,言之有物最重要。不確定的部分先別給客戶答覆,待查證後才給答案。還要在適當時候當聆聽者,找出與對方的共同話題及興趣,有助建立信任。

大日子

(*O*) "你記得今日係咩日子嗎 ^ ^ ?"

@_@ "記得又點唔記得又點呀? 嘿嘿... 都好快又過左一年嘅聖誕呀!!

(*O*) "... 咁... 除左今日係聖誕之外 , 仲有咩特別呢?"

@_@ "係我食聖誕邊爐大餐嘅日子囉! 嘻嘻... 食飯先啦!

(*O*) "hmm... 你真係唔記得?!!"

@_@ "你估下呢? 我食飯先 , 一陣再講呀... !!"

*P.S. 最初以為你冇心肝 , 咩日子都唔記得.. 不過直到收到你送比我份禮物後.. 即刻開心哂嘻嘻... 不過d Facial Mask同Honey會好快用哂同飲完.. 記住再入定多兩樽得閒送比我啦!! ^ ^ 真係最 . 最 . 最錫我嗰個都係"你"囉 ... 真抵錫 xoxo ^o^

12.24.07@**Santa Claus is in Town**


"WISH EVERYONE HAVE A MERRY CHRISTMAS"


We set up a very special party for X'mas Day this year
we've rented an apartment with outdoor like
an unsheltered balcony on top of the house in Mui Wo
check this out our fun photos by clicking at down here...

*Photo 1: In preparation for X'mas Party!!
*Photo 2: It's BBQ time.. Everybody let's EAT!!
*Photo 3: Countdown at 3.2.1 "Merry X'mas"!!
*Photo 4: Lucky Draw & Open the Gifts!!
*Photo 5: "vV Back to Play Vv"!!
*Photo 6: Time to Leave..Bye~!!
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